We use a little-known method of discipline called "Miss Joy's Little Red Carpet".

Our kids are reminded (nicely) of appropriate behavior by their shepherd. However if the behaviors persist, they are brought to my office to sit on the little red carpet (A small area rug). This is a thinking spot/cooling off zone. The main thing it does is remove the distraction from the rest of the group and gives the child time to rethink his
actions.

Most kids HATE being separated from where the action is! Most kids will cooperate with you rather than not get to participate in the activities. We always couple this with a word with the parents.

One thing I make sure of is that I am the only one who carries out any discipline. That way, shepherds can be shepherds. Also - just a reminder- no child is ever in the office with the door closed, and they are always supervised. (Usually by me, while I do paperwork.) Making that environment super boring is another great motivation for kids to get back on track! Because in everything else we are anything but boring!

btw. In my experience, candy bribes pale after time and you have to "up the ante". I've found just directly addressing the behavior and rewarding verbally and with attention works better for us. Good luck! JOY