Interesting thoughts Neil. It doesn't sound like any of the adults involved had any fun! I'm wondering about the kids. Did they have fun?
Every event like this is a balance -- effort vs. outcome. And to add to the mix, often one can't see the "outcome!" If one kid heard the good news, would that be worth it? This is hard because it is such a busy time of year! Such tradeoffs!
Interested in hearing other thoughts!
-- Carol
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