I would be offended if someone asked me what you suggested. It would come across to me as "you dummy, can't you read/follow something so simple?" Try looking at it from the angle of "It's great that you're looking for more ways to reach the kids, what have you found? Where did you find it? Any other ideas? I hope you will share with me/us," and follow through with them. Just like with the kids, if you can find a positive, then accentuate it.
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You can play naive... "I noticed that this was not what was in the lesson plans. Was there a problem with the lesson plans, were they not clear enough?" But you need to find out why they are changing things.
I wholeheartedly agree with Greg. If a teacher is deviating, it's usually because they think it's an improvement. For some the improvement IS "but it's so much easier," and it may BE so much easier, for the kids and the teachers.
And, as Greg mentioned, if they're not trying to change theology, then step back, take a deep breath, and consider if you're not making a mountain out of a molehill. Teachers are hard enough to find, is it worth losing one or more because they aren't teaching strictly or exactly as you want them to?
Look at yourself first. What attitudes are YOU bringing - if you are bound and determined that your way is right and you're going to steamroll over everyone else, then YOU have some work to do before you start in on/with that teacher(s).
I watched our church lose several good grade school teachers because they were told they could either participate in the new program or quit. The new program was brought in by one person, who gathered a couple of her cronies and "worked the bugs out" and then it was forced on everyone else - literally, this is how it's going to be, if you didn't like it, there's the door. She was very surprised when some the teachers, who had not been asked any questions or allowed to participate in the process at all, chose to leave instead of joining up.
Several tears were shed, feelings were drastically hurt, and one couple, who had served for years, left the church entirely. I almost did, then the preschooler/K's department head asked me to help, and I've agreed to work with her again this year. The difference between the two women (the first lady and my current department head) is like night and day, especially in terms of respect and how they deal with someone else.
Your attitude is key in so many ways.
Theresa
Edited to mention that the new program was NOT a rotation program. I wish it had been.